another day of the quarantine, another video! this one is not really related with anything costumey, I just had a silly idea and shot it. hope you enjoy! thumbs up if you can’t take a compliment
WithTheClassics, my husband did the same)). My bad, I can’t take the compliments right but when he decide to remain silent I immediately start my second part of nagging named “why you not complimenting me that’s because I look so bad even my love can’t find a single kind word for me»😂😂
One time a friend told me... . "Thank you. Two words... thank you... that's all you need to say when I give you a compliment!" Up until that day I don't think I realized I was not taking her compliments
I try to deal with compliments by deflecting them with another compliment. "Oh your shirt is really nice I love the color on you!" "Thanks, I really like how you styled your hair today! What product did you use?" Then they generally stop talking about me 👌
I know that if you are complimenting someone very extreme(not the type shown in the video), can be a sign of strategic harm in the long run, because when other peers understand that the compliments are not that real, it suddenly drops your level of respect between your peers.If I as a third person become biased about you positively, I will have higher expectations of you, in a way that you can never fulfill those expectations.Which is the spark of low self confidence.
During one of the first conversations I had with my boyfriend it took twenty minutes for him to get me to accept his compliments. I should’ve told him to try agreeing with my self-inflicted slander to truly prove to me how ridiculous it is. Would’ve saved time.
The 2 minute video suits Karolina. She should do more like this. “Nice outfit. I love it.” “Omg I hate my outfit” “Yeah, you’re right, it sucks. Go home and change.”
Wow I’ve learned what not to do when someone compliments me holy shit I actually really do that and I’m so embarrassed hahahahahahhaha I turn to self deprecation when someone compliments me 😬😬😬
You know, I was trying to come up with my own denigrating reply to the compliment-killer, but I can't really top your own mean comeback. Without using profanity, anyway. ... So good job! I mean it.
No one like ppl that depreciate themselves, some times i see my myself doing it and I'm always trying to not to, it good to see an exaggerated representation of how awful is this.
Ngl, that was me a few years ago. I'd shrug off every compliment as just, "they're just being nice to you... You don't really deserve it..." However, now I am better at handling the compliments and have seen a boost in my self esteem.
Someone: (Compliments me) Me, externally: Aw, thank you! Me, internally: Either you’re saying that out of pity and actually think I’m the ugliest/worst thing you have ever seen in your entire life, are messing with me to laugh at me with your friends or you have some bad tastes.
i know this is annoying, but try to be patient with people who can’t take compliments- I used to do this and it comes from trauma and people telling you that you’re ugly or not good enough to the point where you cannot believe otherwise and get uncomfortable with compliments - self derogatory behavior is brainwashing and it takes a long time to recover from it and retrain yourself! Here’s a reminder that you are all beautiful and deserve compliments! ❤️
If someone gives you a gift, do you throw it on the ground, squat down and take a massive steaming dump on it? No? It's rude you say? Well trashing someone's compliment is no different. It's not humble and self-effacing, it's ungracious rude.
